title: 五步英語那些事 author: 書蟲 tags:
- 我的大學 categories: [] date: 2012-01-10 01:40:00
What a fucking day and fucking feeling
These days, i found that i really changed quite a lot. and i became much more active than before. So i will talk with others actively, and maybe that makes others think that i just have a speciall feeling on ta. But the truth is that i really didn`t mean that, and i also can`t stop me from making frinds with us actively, Sounds like a contradiction, huh?
And here i wanna tell ta that u are so stupid that u never give me any feedback before, and u never realized that even though i behaved very actively but i also need others to treat me actively. but u didn`t do it to me, did u?
So stupid, huh?
So don`t do that again, don`t always think that u deserve others help and sacrifice.
Tips for David
Hello,David!
Honestly speaking, i was not satiesfied with our orgniaztion--five step these overall.
And i believe if u can change ur strategy to manage the team, everything gonna change and everything gonna be fine. Here are my suggestions.
Firstly, i think it`s unfair that the old members have much more chances than the semi-old members, because semi-old members are having their star-making plan courses during this period of time.
And they paid plenty of money, so they deserve to have the chance to practice, english and soft ability, especially teaching ability and teamwork ability. but the old members already had the service one year ago. Just like the Peking trip which is part of the semi-old members` star-making plan, we planed to practice the teamwork ability and other skilles, but the old members took most chances away, since I didn`t get the what I want, so what did I spend so much money to Peking for?
And there`s no doubt that the semi-old members should have much more chances to teach the new students. But the situation is not goes as it expected. don`t u think so? Maybe from ur point of view, you think you already give the semi-old members many chances.
You may think that we semi-old members are not good enough to teach, or say you think that it`s not the right time for us to teach, or say you think that there is no such soft ability trainning thing for us because we just paid so little money and you give us the chance is just because you take us as your friend.
Anyway, whatever the reason is, i think that the five-step has no principal and kind of mess.
Here are my reason:
- Since you asked the semi-old members to start their star-making plan courses, you need to focus most of ur attention on us(even though u did it, but not pretty well), and give us the chances and chanllenges as much as possible. Compare with the old members ours are less.
- Why i said five-step is kinda mess, because every member in five-step didn`t do what they should do at the certain time. For instance, the old members(just like John, Faye, Eric, Barbie etc) should practice their teaching ability and soft ability when they had their star-making courses, obviously, the result was not very good, they didn`t practice so well at that moment(maybe the elder members, just like Jason,Micheal exc took their chance away at that moment), and now they took the semi-old members` chances away to practice their abilities.
- So what the semi-old members should do? Maybe i should tell u that when the courses are over, most of them will not satisfied with u, cause we skipped all the classes to follow u, but we didn`t get what we want. And part of them may keep following you just like Barbie and Eric did last year and tried to take the next-star-making members` chances away. So embarressing circle, huh?
- And from my point of view, this period time(star-making) is not belongs to the old members any more(because they are not "young" any more and they gotta leave, to experience the society). And if they still want to stay, they need to pay u if there are not good enough, or u need to pay them if they are good enough.(oops, it`s u who told we should have commercial ideas )
- And if you did let the semi-old members practice their soft ability and provid them with enough chances and chanllenges, there`s no doubt that everyone gonna be a good teacher or teaching assitant weeks later. And i am sure you also can benefit from it.
- In a long run, this is ur best choices to make every student be satiesfied with ur teaching mothed and to make everyone be super proud of their progress. Of course five-step will become much more famous then.
Secondly,
- when i having my classes today i felt very boring, because my teacher is far from knowledgeble, but i found even though what my teacher teached is very disguting but I still can understand him. Finally i found the reason, it`s because i have the textbook.
- Whenever i felt it`s so boring i will read my textbook for a while and then back to following him. So it`s not very hard to follow him by using books.
- So i think the textbook is very important for teaching, and it`s less be misunderstood by students, you may not want to use textbooks in ur classes, but you still can hand out some script in your class in order to make your classes more effectively. And we also can review it by using the paper, right?
- For instance, if I told u my viewpoint in this article by communication face to face, I am sure u can`t got my main point clearly, can u ?
- And i don`t think you have a plan to teach in ur class, every time you just asked what trouble do we have then helped us solve it. maybe it`s good, but it`s boring if u did it all the time. So why not make it clear what we should do everyday? To reach ur dream step by step.
Thridly,
- I think we need to have more activities. You know,before i joined the star-making plan, i thought we would have a lot of activities to do, some lectures to attend, and companies to visit. and at that moment i thought i would be busy everyday, but the result didn`t go as what i expected.
- And you already told us the theory-teaching-classes are not the most important ones, but the activities-prectacing-classes are! So why not encourage us to go outside the campus and do some real chanllenge things. And i think the seven-day-surviving-plan is very good, But we need more!
At last, I wanna tell u that I didn`t mean any deffence, since I take u as my best friend and I believe u can do better(and u already did pretty well), so I give u some advice, nobody need the-praising-sweeting-words, because u can learn nothing from them, but the bittering-boring-painful-words really can help u improve urself, right? But as ur friend I need to tell u that something went wrong, and u need to consider it and solve it. what I said in this artice may make u feel so bad, and you may think I am so selfish or so tiny-hearted.
If u really think so, you are totally wrong, because I just hope the-five-step really can become a formal english trainning orgnization as New Orential does, so you need to make the principles and everybody need to follow the holy principles. What I told in the article is just the things we must do according the priciples.
Hehe~
All the best
Logan
我在山大的英文演講稿
I come here today because I wanna share my story with you guys and I am quite sure that my story will shock you and make you think about what you should do the following days to make your life much more meanful. And maybe I gonna change your whole life, because I am still a student, and I met the same problem with you And the point is, I thought much more about it that you ever did before.
The following words really make me super proud and worth remembering through my whole life.
l Did you ever went to the company which has something to do with your major and did you ever talked with HRs there
l Did you ever talked with foreigners, and do you have the courage to make friends with them. Try to imagine, that one day, you go to the foreigner`s apartment alone and knock the door without any appointment in advance, can you do that? Yes, you can make it!
l Did you ever visit teachers` apartment without any appointment in advance, and persuade the teacher to let you come in and tutor their kids for hours. Do you think you have the bravery, and do you believe you can persuade them?
l know because of me, and thanks to my English only plan, all my roommates had their English name now,
and I thought their English name is so sweet and fabulous, Edward,Daniel, Brandi, Steven, Oberson and exc.
l Did u ever think about that one day u can speak English when u are sleeping at night, but Idid it million times.
l Did u have the willing to speak English for one day without any Chinese words, no matterwhom u gonna meet u till keep speaking English.
l Dare to be different and have a strong willing to show myself and care less about others opinion on me.
l Follow my heart and do the thing I want to do
l Change others instead be changed by others
l Enlarge (range of) experience
l Do the things that u never imagined before
l Ask for trouble in order to make your heart more strong.
Dou guys know why I can did these thing?
Dou think I am a talented student?
Dou think I am form this school?
No!!!
Tobe frank, I came from the normal school and without question it`s worse than ur school.
Soall the things I did before thanks to the spirit—ABC.
A stands for active. B stands for brave, and C stands for confident.
Didu think I shocked ur guys today, if not, it does matter, why not try to do the thing I told u just now, if u really did one thing of them, I promise u that u gonna be totally shocked by it!!!
Thank u for listening!!
辯論的技巧總結
- doublestar 2010 international varsity debate
- if i was a teacher, i will ask my student to debate.
- the ponit in debating is that we need to use the case happened in the real life to defence and offence. and another point is we need to know that the meaning of debating is try to get sth. that we can use in our life. remember that!
- if u want to win the debate, give me the real story.
Lyrics for "One More Kiss"
onemore night and then we will saygoodbye.
everythingis gonna be alright how I hate to see teardrops in your eyes cause it makes me feel so bad inside though you're tried to give thousand promises but it’s hard to keep all our love alive. (無暫停)one more kiss and then we will say goodbye please don't let me see your crying eyes
……………… one more night and then we will say goodbye. everything is gonna be alright how I hate to see teardrops in your eyes cause it make me feel so bad inside though you're tried to give thousand promises but it’s hard to keep all our love alive. (無暫停)one more kiss and then we will say goodbye
pleasedon't let me see your crying eyes …… one more night and then we will saygoodbye. everything is gonna be alright how I hate to see teardrops in your eyes cause it make me feel so bad inside though you're tried to give thousand promises but it’s hard to keep all our love alive. one more kiss and then we will say goodbye please don't let me see your crying eyes
~~~
易濤:人生若只如初見
注:寫給小易濤,但是未傳送的信
嗨,小可愛!作為我少數的幾個VIP之一,今天我抽時間給你寫了一些東西,你看一下吧,都是我自己的感觸。
在說主題之前,我想先說一下我內心對你的真實的情感。我們剛開始認識的時候,我覺得你是既是“潛力股”又是“實力派”,而且你給我的第一印象特別的好,所以呢,我對你的關注度從那時一點點的提高。十一集訓的合作呢,使我們彼此更加了解對方,感情也更加深厚。到現在我依然記得你那甜美的笑容,對我來說,這是難得的精神財富,而且多次使我興奮不已,如果說我認識你之前我很熱愛“生活”,認識你之後,你的笑容時常會成為我美妙生活的“催化劑”。
看到這裡,你是否更加意識到笑的重要性了呢。那我們今後就多對別人笑吧,而且你那麼的開朗(你給我的印象是非常自信,很開朗哦)這不正是你的強項嘛。我發現對男孩子來說最好的“撒嬌”方式就是笑,不會被別人誤認為是“做作”又可以使自己顯得落落大方,活躍開朗,呵呵……
接著呢,你對我推心置腹地說了很多你以前的事情,讓我更加的喜愛你,更加admire you。對我來說你是“新概念”,那種衝擊力絕不亞於周杰倫的演唱會(雖然我沒去過,呵呵)!慢慢地我更加的喜歡你了!
還記得有一次,你問我有沒有女友,我當時欺騙了你。可是我為什麼會違背自己的意願而欺騙你呢,我可是把“坦誠”看得很重的一個人哦。因為我不打算也不能找女友,因為我覺得那樣會浪費時間和精力,更會讓我墮落,消沉或者一蹶不振(我覺得諸如此類的詞語都可以在這裡用)所以我不會去做這件事。當時為了避免誤會我就欺騙了你,見諒!下面就是我為什麼不找女友的原因,嘿嘿
我是一個非常崇尚自由的人,尤其是心靈的自由,我有的時候非常迷戀孤獨(不是寂寞哈,別混了)我喜歡一個人靜靜地呆在一個地方,靜靜地思考或者是靜靜地發呆,這能讓我找到心靈上的平衡,能讓我遠離喧囂,消除精神上的疲勞繼續以飽滿的精神狀態前行。所以說孤獨是我一切精神活動的皈依和源泉!如果我長時間失去了獨處的機會的話,我必將“不攻自破”(想不到合適的詞了,就拿過來用了,你能理解我的意思就行了,呵呵)這樣的性格或者說這樣的精神需求是沒辦法讓我兩者兼得並且遊刃有餘的,與其最後弄得一塌糊塗,倒不如一身輕鬆地思考人生,調侃生活。(絕非自誇,在大學期間有曾有5個女孩向我表示過欲和我走得“更近“,但都沒過的了我的”自由關“啊)
我覺得我根據自己的實際情況做出的這個決定是非常的明智的,這使得我更加的陽光和開朗,我骨子裡的那些積極的東西也都有了展現的舞臺,我也能笑得更甜,能把更多的快樂與別人分享(甚至我會和一些很開放的人分享我的愛,分享愛的感受,真的是1+1>2啊),我現在反倒覺得我該在前幾天的感恩節很正式地對 “決定”表達我深深的感激之情,嘿嘿……(我不知道你能否看懂?)
集訓過後呢,我對你的feeling,可以用這幾個字來形容:非常喜歡,絲絲的愛。這裡我用了“愛”這個字,絕對是超級“限量版”啊,在這裡我希望不要嚇到你,那不是我的初衷,因為剛開始的時候我也說了,我在寫自己心裡真真實實的想法和情感,我覺得愛這種情感完全可以融入在友情當中。我之所以這麼寫是因為我覺得這樣我很自由,你讀起來也可以很明白,不用糾結,更不會被我整的一頭霧水。以防你不太明白,我還想再強調一遍:作為我的VIP,我很喜歡你,原因有很多,正是這很多的原因使得你在我心目中的形象很perfect,因而加深了我們之間的friendship,自然而然地產生了絲絲的愛。
小可愛,寫到這裡,我才感受到作為一箇中國人可真不容易啊,為了一個字,我解釋了N句話,還流了很多汗,你要是出國了就好了哈,在西方的文化裡面,朋友之間的信裡要是不提及愛的話,好像是不正常的吧。呵呵
我給你說這些,一方面是因為我自始至終都認為你值得信任,而且你也一如既往地對我敞開心扉,我很感激,很榮幸,也很樂意對告訴你我內心真正的想法;另一方面是因為我想對你說一下我對產生上面所說的這種現象的原因的看法。因為我對產生這種現象的原因的看法是很積極的,很振奮人心的,所以呢,我今天也很興奮地寫下了這些文字。
好了,我作為一箇中國學生,照本宣科(貌似不對啊,能明白我的意思就行)地向你解釋了一番,接下來該說正題了。
說實在的,這個星期一馬克思那堂課下課以後,我和你談了一會兒,我對那次談話不太滿意,感覺和以往相比缺了一點東西。仔細想想少了點興奮和單純,多了些尊重和陌生。雖然感覺上大家依然相互信任,依然坦誠相待,但是和預期的是有點差別的,我覺得你也可以感受的到吧!
我想這才是真正的生活吧,這才是友誼發展下去的必須要經過的階段吧。所以想到這裡,我釋懷了,想通了,我意識到有平淡的友誼才是真實的。它依然很高雅,只要雙方坦誠相待,互相信任,我覺得這才是更加真實的友情,呵呵。
想到這裡我覺得如果可以把友情的發展過程同人生的各個階段聯絡起來的話,我覺得這份友誼走向了成熟,它就像是在告訴你我,它是一壺酒,歲月留給它的只能是愈發的醇香。
現在我很高興地想要告訴你,雖然我們的聯絡少了,見面的機會少了,那又能算得了什麼呢。
於我,你留下的是一張可愛的笑眯眯的小臉蛋和積極的生活態度。說真的在學習方面你絕對配得上當我的指路明燈,讓我自己覺得自己做的很不太好,應該更加努力些。我因你的那份韌勁而改變,對學習的責任心更加強烈,如果說我與你交朋友是有目的的話,我覺得我最大的目的就是能在學習方面受到你好的影響吧。
於你,也許我留下的是對生活的發自肺腑的熱愛和對精神上的自由、孤獨的嚮往吧。希望這能讓你從甜美的生活中走出來以高昂的鬥志和超級活躍的大腦投入到你的奮鬥目標當中,同時當你身心勞累,精神疲倦時又能回到生活中去,快快的恢復到最佳的狀態。
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1樓 評論時間: 2013-04-21 22:17:22
你能寫這篇文章,說明你是喜歡甚至某種程度上愛易濤的,不論易濤是否能感受到你的愛,反正你對她的感情是強烈的!
2樓 評論時間: 2013-04-21 22:23:06
也許在我寫下這封信的那一刻,我更加堅定地選擇走“孤獨”的路線,選擇獨處,靜思,更加看重自己的精神世界了。這樣的選擇在當時是美好的,有豐富的精神世界總是好事,但到現在這一刻,臨近畢業的日子,如果我還一味地以“獨處”為由不合任何親友打交道的話,那就是沒有遠見,因為在中國生活講究的就是一個圈子,人人都要有一個靠得住的圈子,這才是立足之本。另外,如果單單強調“孤獨” ,生活就會過於單調,加上我現在從事的工作,將會導致更加平淡乏味的生活,所以,還是要抽出時間聚會,抽出時間玩耍,只有這樣才不至於從“孤獨”淪落至“鰥寡孤獨”的境地!
3樓 評論時間: 2013-04-21 22:41:16
文章中提到的“大學裡不找女朋友的理由”真的好幼稚啊,我想問的是,這兩者有關係嗎?
4樓 評論時間: 2013-04-21 22:44:03
就是因為自己崇尚那種所謂的自由,才弄的自己“人不人鬼不鬼”,可要知道,我當初獨處時研究的哲學、文學等,在現實中很難找到知音啊,好不容易找到一個女朋友,最終也因為“讀不懂我”而分手,我真的很奇葩唉!
易濤發表的關於我的日誌
I know my partner who has left a deep impression on me better and better through communicating with him several times. To be honest, I`m very glad that I could come across him in such a wide range of people all over the university, and I`m very proud of owning that kind of friend.
Frankly speaking, I`m such a girl who always do what I am willing to do, and enjoy something that will comfort my heart. Maybe you could reckon that I just want to get the scholarship, but it`s who I am, cause I am a positive student and I am a optimistic little girl. I have recognized that there would be some problems in my life since I have such characters. And there are many stuff have happened to me which result from this kind of character. I felt a little sad because of something happened to me this morning.
When I came over to the bank of river,I saw my partner, so I went towards him. Actually, I planned to consult him some questions about the pronunciation at first, but I didn`t do that. I just chatted with him and told him my opinions about the value of my life, about my attitude towards everything, about my methods to resolve contradictions and so on. And I told him my blue mood at that moment as well, to my surprise, he didn`t only feel boring but also gave me some advices, and I was deeply touched at that moment.
People around me always make me change myself, and I think it is difficult for me then I just make few efforts to reach their standards, but he was the only one guy who encouraged me to be what I want to be, I`m so lucky that there is a person who can support me.
During our whole conversation, I have learned much from him, and I was deeply impressed by his kindness and patience at the same time.
Now I want to give my sincere thanks and respects to him—my great partner.
The last but not the least, thanks very much! I hope we will be the best friends who can share our joys and sorrows with each other!
寫給易煒林的信
I don't know why my heart is miserable so sharply.
So that explains it. Something is destained to happen. At the beginning ,I was really really happy, but lately I find how silly I was in my happiness when I thought I could always trust you to come for me.
I ought to have known it is impossible to happen from the first sight when I have got a crush on you. But I am pretty sick at heart,not only for the old times,but for the present words that hoverringover my mind. It is bleeding in every piece of my hearts. I don’t know why you are so cruel, cruel indeed. I am the same person who loves you so real and so ture from the tips of my fingers to the apple of my eye. If I could only make your heartache one little minute of each day as mine does every socond, I can feel a little bit better. The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death,is to dig an uncrossable wide gap for the one who loves you so heart felt.
But I will never regret to give my whole heart to you. Now I really wanna cry, but i know i cannot because I have my dreams which will accompany me forever,and which always give me the power energy to fight for my hazy future.
I remember someone said that a true mature person is someone who can still smile even though filled by painful tears. Anyway, the struggles and the pains are but the price we must pay for the happiness and victories of tomorrow. And what I’ve already achieved gives me hope for what I can achieve tomorrow. I can become what I planned to be inthe future.
May everyone be happy and succeed. Good night!!!
英語口語學習技巧總結
- 著重發好n音的單詞比如:done,ten,man,when,vacation,alone,rain
- 著重於捲舌音 的單詞:horse,horrible,bookstore,door,your,before
- 個別記憶(最好遇到別的單詞時能做到對號入座):value,mo/啊/del,happy(b),ner vous,hungry,(^n),adult(ao音),walk(^)
- 把r音拉長會顯得很地道:start
- 嘴巴咧到耳朵上:hate,crazy
日常應用:amazing(太好了),let`s get started, it happens.
