title: 五步英语那些事 author: 书虫 tags:
- 我的大学 categories: [] date: 2012-01-10 01:40:00
What a fucking day and fucking feeling
These days, i found that i really changed quite a lot. and i became much more active than before. So i will talk with others actively, and maybe that makes others think that i just have a speciall feeling on ta. But the truth is that i really didn`t mean that, and i also can`t stop me from making frinds with us actively, Sounds like a contradiction, huh?
And here i wanna tell ta that u are so stupid that u never give me any feedback before, and u never realized that even though i behaved very actively but i also need others to treat me actively. but u didn`t do it to me, did u?
So stupid, huh?
So don`t do that again, don`t always think that u deserve others help and sacrifice.
Tips for David
Hello,David!
Honestly speaking, i was not satiesfied with our orgniaztion--five step these overall.
And i believe if u can change ur strategy to manage the team, everything gonna change and everything gonna be fine. Here are my suggestions.
Firstly, i think it`s unfair that the old members have much more chances than the semi-old members, because semi-old members are having their star-making plan courses during this period of time.
And they paid plenty of money, so they deserve to have the chance to practice, english and soft ability, especially teaching ability and teamwork ability. but the old members already had the service one year ago. Just like the Peking trip which is part of the semi-old members` star-making plan, we planed to practice the teamwork ability and other skilles, but the old members took most chances away, since I didn`t get the what I want, so what did I spend so much money to Peking for?
And there`s no doubt that the semi-old members should have much more chances to teach the new students. But the situation is not goes as it expected. don`t u think so? Maybe from ur point of view, you think you already give the semi-old members many chances.
You may think that we semi-old members are not good enough to teach, or say you think that it`s not the right time for us to teach, or say you think that there is no such soft ability trainning thing for us because we just paid so little money and you give us the chance is just because you take us as your friend.
Anyway, whatever the reason is, i think that the five-step has no principal and kind of mess.
Here are my reason:
- Since you asked the semi-old members to start their star-making plan courses, you need to focus most of ur attention on us(even though u did it, but not pretty well), and give us the chances and chanllenges as much as possible. Compare with the old members ours are less.
- Why i said five-step is kinda mess, because every member in five-step didn`t do what they should do at the certain time. For instance, the old members(just like John, Faye, Eric, Barbie etc) should practice their teaching ability and soft ability when they had their star-making courses, obviously, the result was not very good, they didn`t practice so well at that moment(maybe the elder members, just like Jason,Micheal exc took their chance away at that moment), and now they took the semi-old members` chances away to practice their abilities.
- So what the semi-old members should do? Maybe i should tell u that when the courses are over, most of them will not satisfied with u, cause we skipped all the classes to follow u, but we didn`t get what we want. And part of them may keep following you just like Barbie and Eric did last year and tried to take the next-star-making members` chances away. So embarressing circle, huh?
- And from my point of view, this period time(star-making) is not belongs to the old members any more(because they are not "young" any more and they gotta leave, to experience the society). And if they still want to stay, they need to pay u if there are not good enough, or u need to pay them if they are good enough.(oops, it`s u who told we should have commercial ideas )
- And if you did let the semi-old members practice their soft ability and provid them with enough chances and chanllenges, there`s no doubt that everyone gonna be a good teacher or teaching assitant weeks later. And i am sure you also can benefit from it.
- In a long run, this is ur best choices to make every student be satiesfied with ur teaching mothed and to make everyone be super proud of their progress. Of course five-step will become much more famous then.
Secondly,
- when i having my classes today i felt very boring, because my teacher is far from knowledgeble, but i found even though what my teacher teached is very disguting but I still can understand him. Finally i found the reason, it`s because i have the textbook.
- Whenever i felt it`s so boring i will read my textbook for a while and then back to following him. So it`s not very hard to follow him by using books.
- So i think the textbook is very important for teaching, and it`s less be misunderstood by students, you may not want to use textbooks in ur classes, but you still can hand out some script in your class in order to make your classes more effectively. And we also can review it by using the paper, right?
- For instance, if I told u my viewpoint in this article by communication face to face, I am sure u can`t got my main point clearly, can u ?
- And i don`t think you have a plan to teach in ur class, every time you just asked what trouble do we have then helped us solve it. maybe it`s good, but it`s boring if u did it all the time. So why not make it clear what we should do everyday? To reach ur dream step by step.
Thridly,
- I think we need to have more activities. You know,before i joined the star-making plan, i thought we would have a lot of activities to do, some lectures to attend, and companies to visit. and at that moment i thought i would be busy everyday, but the result didn`t go as what i expected.
- And you already told us the theory-teaching-classes are not the most important ones, but the activities-prectacing-classes are! So why not encourage us to go outside the campus and do some real chanllenge things. And i think the seven-day-surviving-plan is very good, But we need more!
At last, I wanna tell u that I didn`t mean any deffence, since I take u as my best friend and I believe u can do better(and u already did pretty well), so I give u some advice, nobody need the-praising-sweeting-words, because u can learn nothing from them, but the bittering-boring-painful-words really can help u improve urself, right? But as ur friend I need to tell u that something went wrong, and u need to consider it and solve it. what I said in this artice may make u feel so bad, and you may think I am so selfish or so tiny-hearted.
If u really think so, you are totally wrong, because I just hope the-five-step really can become a formal english trainning orgnization as New Orential does, so you need to make the principles and everybody need to follow the holy principles. What I told in the article is just the things we must do according the priciples.
Hehe~
All the best
Logan
我在山大的英文演讲稿
I come here today because I wanna share my story with you guys and I am quite sure that my story will shock you and make you think about what you should do the following days to make your life much more meanful. And maybe I gonna change your whole life, because I am still a student, and I met the same problem with you And the point is, I thought much more about it that you ever did before.
The following words really make me super proud and worth remembering through my whole life.
l Did you ever went to the company which has something to do with your major and did you ever talked with HRs there
l Did you ever talked with foreigners, and do you have the courage to make friends with them. Try to imagine, that one day, you go to the foreigner`s apartment alone and knock the door without any appointment in advance, can you do that? Yes, you can make it!
l Did you ever visit teachers` apartment without any appointment in advance, and persuade the teacher to let you come in and tutor their kids for hours. Do you think you have the bravery, and do you believe you can persuade them?
l know because of me, and thanks to my English only plan, all my roommates had their English name now,
and I thought their English name is so sweet and fabulous, Edward,Daniel, Brandi, Steven, Oberson and exc.
l Did u ever think about that one day u can speak English when u are sleeping at night, but Idid it million times.
l Did u have the willing to speak English for one day without any Chinese words, no matterwhom u gonna meet u till keep speaking English.
l Dare to be different and have a strong willing to show myself and care less about others opinion on me.
l Follow my heart and do the thing I want to do
l Change others instead be changed by others
l Enlarge (range of) experience
l Do the things that u never imagined before
l Ask for trouble in order to make your heart more strong.
Dou guys know why I can did these thing?
Dou think I am a talented student?
Dou think I am form this school?
No！！！
Tobe frank, I came from the normal school and without question it`s worse than ur school.
Soall the things I did before thanks to the spirit—ABC.
A stands for active. B stands for brave, and C stands for confident.
Didu think I shocked ur guys today, if not, it does matter, why not try to do the thing I told u just now, if u really did one thing of them, I promise u that u gonna be totally shocked by it!!!
Thank u for listening!!
辩论的技巧总结
- doublestar 2010 international varsity debate
- if i was a teacher, i will ask my student to debate.
- the ponit in debating is that we need to use the case happened in the real life to defence and offence. and another point is we need to know that the meaning of debating is try to get sth. that we can use in our life. remember that!
- if u want to win the debate, give me the real story.
Lyrics for "One More Kiss"
onemore night and then we will saygoodbye.
everythingis gonna be alright how I hate to see teardrops in your eyes cause it makes me feel so bad inside though you're tried to give thousand promises but it’s hard to keep all our love alive. (无暂停)one more kiss and then we will say goodbye please don't let me see your crying eyes
……………… one more night and then we will say goodbye. everything is gonna be alright how I hate to see teardrops in your eyes cause it make me feel so bad inside though you're tried to give thousand promises but it’s hard to keep all our love alive. (无暂停)one more kiss and then we will say goodbye
pleasedon't let me see your crying eyes …… one more night and then we will saygoodbye. everything is gonna be alright how I hate to see teardrops in your eyes cause it make me feel so bad inside though you're tried to give thousand promises but it’s hard to keep all our love alive. one more kiss and then we will say goodbye please don't let me see your crying eyes
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易涛：人生若只如初见
注：写给小易涛，但是未发送的信
嗨,小可爱！作为我少数的几个VIP之一，今天我抽时间给你写了一些东西，你看一下吧，都是我自己的感触。
在说主题之前，我想先说一下我内心对你的真实的情感。我们刚开始认识的时候，我觉得你是既是“潜力股”又是“实力派”，而且你给我的第一印象特别的好，所以呢，我对你的关注度从那时一点点的提高。十一集训的合作呢，使我们彼此更加了解对方，感情也更加深厚。到现在我依然记得你那甜美的笑容，对我来说，这是难得的精神财富，而且多次使我兴奋不已，如果说我认识你之前我很热爱“生活”，认识你之后，你的笑容时常会成为我美妙生活的“催化剂”。
看到这里，你是否更加意识到笑的重要性了呢。那我们今后就多对别人笑吧，而且你那么的开朗（你给我的印象是非常自信，很开朗哦）这不正是你的强项嘛。我发现对男孩子来说最好的“撒娇”方式就是笑，不会被别人误认为是“做作”又可以使自己显得落落大方，活跃开朗,呵呵……
接着呢，你对我推心置腹地说了很多你以前的事情，让我更加的喜爱你，更加admire you。对我来说你是“新概念”，那种冲击力绝不亚于周杰伦的演唱会（虽然我没去过，呵呵）！慢慢地我更加的喜欢你了！
还记得有一次，你问我有没有女友，我当时欺骗了你。可是我为什么会违背自己的意愿而欺骗你呢，我可是把“坦诚”看得很重的一个人哦。因为我不打算也不能找女友，因为我觉得那样会浪费时间和精力，更会让我堕落，消沉或者一蹶不振（我觉得诸如此类的词语都可以在这里用）所以我不会去做这件事。当时为了避免误会我就欺骗了你，见谅！下面就是我为什么不找女友的原因，嘿嘿
我是一个非常崇尚自由的人，尤其是心灵的自由，我有的时候非常迷恋孤独（不是寂寞哈，别混了）我喜欢一个人静静地呆在一个地方，静静地思考或者是静静地发呆，这能让我找到心灵上的平衡，能让我远离喧嚣，消除精神上的疲劳继续以饱满的精神状态前行。所以说孤独是我一切精神活动的皈依和源泉！如果我长时间失去了独处的机会的话，我必将“不攻自破”（想不到合适的词了，就拿过来用了，你能理解我的意思就行了，呵呵）这样的性格或者说这样的精神需求是没办法让我两者兼得并且游刃有余的，与其最后弄得一塌糊涂，倒不如一身轻松地思考人生，调侃生活。（绝非自夸，在大学期间有曾有5个女孩向我表示过欲和我走得“更近“，但都没过的了我的”自由关“啊）
我觉得我根据自己的实际情况做出的这个决定是非常的明智的，这使得我更加的阳光和开朗，我骨子里的那些积极的东西也都有了展现的舞台，我也能笑得更甜，能把更多的快乐与别人分享（甚至我会和一些很开放的人分享我的爱，分享爱的感受，真的是1+1>2啊），我现在反倒觉得我该在前几天的感恩节很正式地对 “决定”表达我深深的感激之情，嘿嘿……（我不知道你能否看懂？）
集训过后呢，我对你的feeling，可以用这几个字来形容：非常喜欢，丝丝的爱。这里我用了“爱”这个字，绝对是超级“限量版”啊，在这里我希望不要吓到你，那不是我的初衷，因为刚开始的时候我也说了，我在写自己心里真真实实的想法和情感，我觉得爱这种情感完全可以融入在友情当中。我之所以这么写是因为我觉得这样我很自由，你读起来也可以很明白，不用纠结，更不会被我整的一头雾水。以防你不太明白，我还想再强调一遍：作为我的VIP，我很喜欢你，原因有很多，正是这很多的原因使得你在我心目中的形象很perfect，因而加深了我们之间的friendship，自然而然地产生了丝丝的爱。
小可爱，写到这里，我才感受到作为一个中国人可真不容易啊，为了一个字，我解释了N句话，还流了很多汗，你要是出国了就好了哈，在西方的文化里面，朋友之间的信里要是不提及爱的话，好像是不正常的吧。呵呵
我给你说这些，一方面是因为我自始至终都认为你值得信任，而且你也一如既往地对我敞开心扉，我很感激，很荣幸，也很乐意对告诉你我内心真正的想法；另一方面是因为我想对你说一下我对产生上面所说的这种现象的原因的看法。因为我对产生这种现象的原因的看法是很积极的，很振奋人心的，所以呢，我今天也很兴奋地写下了这些文本。
好了，我作为一个中国学生，照本宣科（貌似不对啊，能明白我的意思就行）地向你解释了一番，接下来该说正题了。
说实在的，这个星期一马克思那堂课下课以后，我和你谈了一会儿，我对那次谈话不太满意，感觉和以往相比缺了一点东西。仔细想想少了点兴奋和单纯，多了些尊重和陌生。虽然感觉上大家依然相互信任，依然坦诚相待，但是和预期的是有点差别的，我觉得你也可以感受的到吧！
我想这才是真正的生活吧，这才是友谊发展下去的必须要经过的阶段吧。所以想到这里，我释怀了，想通了，我意识到有平淡的友谊才是真实的。它依然很高雅，只要双方坦诚相待，互相信任，我觉得这才是更加真实的友情，呵呵。
想到这里我觉得如果可以把友情的发展过程同人生的各个阶段联系起来的话，我觉得这份友谊走向了成熟，它就像是在告诉你我，它是一壶酒，岁月留给它的只能是愈发的醇香。
现在我很高兴地想要告诉你，虽然我们的联系少了，见面的机会少了，那又能算得了什么呢。
于我，你留下的是一张可爱的笑眯眯的小脸蛋和积极的生活态度。说真的在学习方面你绝对配得上当我的指路明灯，让我自己觉得自己做的很不太好，应该更加努力些。我因你的那份韧劲而改变，对学习的责任心更加强烈，如果说我与你交朋友是有目的的话，我觉得我最大的目的就是能在学习方面受到你好的影响吧。
于你，也许我留下的是对生活的发自肺腑的热爱和对精神上的自由、孤独的向往吧。希望这能让你从甜美的生活中走出来以高昂的斗志和超级活跃的大脑投入到你的奋斗目标当中，同时当你身心劳累，精神疲倦时又能回到生活中去，快快的恢复到最佳的状态。
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1楼 评论时间: 2013-04-21 22:17:22
你能写这篇文章，说明你是喜欢甚至某种程度上爱易涛的，不论易涛是否能感受到你的爱，反正你对她的感情是强烈的！
2楼 评论时间: 2013-04-21 22:23:06
也许在我写下这封信的那一刻，我更加坚定地选择走“孤独”的路线，选择独处，静思，更加看重自己的精神世界了。这样的选择在当时是美好的，有丰富的精神世界总是好事，但到现在这一刻，临近毕业的日子，如果我还一味地以“独处”为由不合任何亲友打交道的话，那就是没有远见，因为在中国生活讲究的就是一个圈子，人人都要有一个靠得住的圈子，这才是立足之本。另外，如果单单强调“孤独” ，生活就会过於单调，加上我现在从事的工作，将会导致更加平淡乏味的生活，所以，还是要抽出时间聚会，抽出时间玩耍，只有这样才不至于从“孤独”沦落至“鳏寡孤独”的境地！
3楼 评论时间: 2013-04-21 22:41:16
文章中提到的“大学里不找女朋友的理由”真的好幼稚啊，我想问的是，这两者有关系吗？
4楼 评论时间: 2013-04-21 22:44:03
就是因为自己崇尚那种所谓的自由，才弄的自己“人不人鬼不鬼”，可要知道，我当初独处时研究的哲学、文学等，在现实中很难找到知音啊，好不容易找到一个女朋友，最终也因为“读不懂我”而分手，我真的很奇葩唉！
易涛发表的关于我的日志
I know my partner who has left a deep impression on me better and better through communicating with him several times. To be honest, I`m very glad that I could come across him in such a wide range of people all over the university, and I`m very proud of owning that kind of friend.
Frankly speaking, I`m such a girl who always do what I am willing to do, and enjoy something that will comfort my heart. Maybe you could reckon that I just want to get the scholarship, but it`s who I am, cause I am a positive student and I am a optimistic little girl. I have recognized that there would be some problems in my life since I have such characters. And there are many stuff have happened to me which result from this kind of character. I felt a little sad because of something happened to me this morning.
When I came over to the bank of river,I saw my partner, so I went towards him. Actually, I planned to consult him some questions about the pronunciation at first, but I didn`t do that. I just chatted with him and told him my opinions about the value of my life, about my attitude towards everything, about my methods to resolve contradictions and so on. And I told him my blue mood at that moment as well, to my surprise, he didn`t only feel boring but also gave me some advices, and I was deeply touched at that moment.
People around me always make me change myself, and I think it is difficult for me then I just make few efforts to reach their standards, but he was the only one guy who encouraged me to be what I want to be, I`m so lucky that there is a person who can support me.
During our whole conversation, I have learned much from him, and I was deeply impressed by his kindness and patience at the same time.
Now I want to give my sincere thanks and respects to him—my great partner.
The last but not the least, thanks very much! I hope we will be the best friends who can share our joys and sorrows with each other!
写给易炜林的信
I don't know why my heart is miserable so sharply.
So that explains it. Something is destained to happen. At the beginning ,I was really really happy, but lately I find how silly I was in my happiness when I thought I could always trust you to come for me.
I ought to have known it is impossible to happen from the first sight when I have got a crush on you. But I am pretty sick at heart,not only for the old times,but for the present words that hoverringover my mind. It is bleeding in every piece of my hearts. I don’t know why you are so cruel, cruel indeed. I am the same person who loves you so real and so ture from the tips of my fingers to the apple of my eye. If I could only make your heartache one little minute of each day as mine does every socond, I can feel a little bit better. The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death,is to dig an uncrossable wide gap for the one who loves you so heart felt.
But I will never regret to give my whole heart to you. Now I really wanna cry, but i know i cannot because I have my dreams which will accompany me forever,and which always give me the power energy to fight for my hazy future.
I remember someone said that a true mature person is someone who can still smile even though filled by painful tears. Anyway, the struggles and the pains are but the price we must pay for the happiness and victories of tomorrow. And what I’ve already achieved gives me hope for what I can achieve tomorrow. I can become what I planned to be inthe future.
May everyone be happy and succeed. Good night!!!
英语口语学习技巧总结
- 着重发好n音的单词比如：done,ten,man,when,vacation,alone,rain
- 着重于卷舌音 的单词：horse,horrible,bookstore,door,your，before
- 个别记忆（最好遇到别的单词时能做到对号入座）：value,mo/啊/del,happy（b），ner vous,hungry，(^n),adult（ao音），walk(^)
- 把r音拉长会显得很地道：start
- 嘴巴咧到耳朵上：hate,crazy
日常应用：amazing（太好了），let`s get started, it happens.